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I'm not able to relax at all during sex. Basically I've never reached an orgasm with penetration, only through oral sex. Is there something wrong with me? Answer

I'm 16 and want to have sex for the first time with another man. I met a 27 year-old and he's very cool. Is it OK to have sex with a guy 12 years older than me?

Is it normal to have crushes, even though I'm married? I have a happy marriage, but I'm finding myself very attracted to a coworker. How should I handle it?

Men are only human too, they have hang ups. Here's a common one.

Now this is an uncommon one, we don't very often get men asking advice. It's like men and asking directions right?? Well come on guys feel free to ask more, we want to learn to be better for you. *wink*

Hi Joolz, I've been with my fella now for alittle over 6 months. Just recently he has been having problems keeping it up. I feel he might have got bored with me and wants to find someone else or that he is not turned on by me anymore. He won't go to see the doctor and i really don't understand it coz he won't talk to me about it. Should i leave him? Or mayb buy him some viagra or something like that?? Please help, we have a great sex life most of the time but the times he can't keep an erection i feel so dissapointed. Cheers mate, Lyndsey

Hi guys, it seems lots of you are emailing me for advice.

Recently I have had a number of letters regarding masturbation, asking about both the physical aspects as well as the emotional ones. Masturbation is the stimulating or handling of the genitals (sexual organs) for sexual pleasure and to achieve orgasm. It is also a pleasurable way of stimulating a sexual partner and is known to be one of the most common forms of sexual activity after penetrative vaginal sexual intercourse.

I hope you can help, I have been with my partner for 2 months now and she has never seen me fully naked, nor has she touched my bits. Well this is the embarrsing bit, when erect I am about 4 inches, I have seen other blokes bits and none look as small as mine. Our relationship is beginning to suffer because although I do satisfy my partner I am not able to be satisfied by her because I am too scared to get my bits in case she leaves me. Please help me. Ben

Its just with some one with more weight then me. I am very attracted to the woman i am seeing. Its just that, i dont want to freak you out with description, i can go very slow and even still, it feels incredible. But i still dont last that long. Im thinking on just getting a cock ring, or try delay cream. but if theres somthing else i can try that wouldnt halt love making i would more then willing to try that first. I really dont think it's physcological or anything. I do my own studies with that. Is there a such thing as physicaly incapatable?

Suddenly my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex. We had a great sex life, and in a matter of days, he doesn't even touch me anymore. What do I do?

I've been receiving head from my wife for over 20 years now. Her technique is good but, she won't let me cum in her mouth.

Emailed request> I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years. We have quite a good sex life, however i have noticed that recently he is loosing his erection during sex. I have not said anything to him about this as i don't want to make it a problem but i am left feeling un satisfied. I just kinda lose interest once this happens Please help me as i am scared to talk to him.

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